Tactile Nudists
For anyone who likes to touch and be touched, be it loving, sensual or sexual.
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Real naked hugs
Return to DiscussionsI enjoy real hugs. Not those pretend hugs in which the bodies barely touch. Each is enveloped by the other's arms and the whole bodies are pressed together. It's even better naked - skin on skin, close contact, even genitals touching. It's comforting and sensual not sexual.
Well...this woman was later kicked out of the club for being "too naughty." So I think it's a safe bet that she was being flirtatious lol! I don't think she would have been the least bit surprised if I had gotten hard. Her hug was prolonged enough that it certainly could have happened. There were people around us at the time, so I would have had no choice but to turn away and immediately exit!...Lines can get blurry really quickly with prolonged physical contact; which is why it's typically frowned upon at "normal" resorts.
Thank you for explaining that because I wasn't sure about the woman's intentions. I doubt that tshe got in trouble just for flirtatiously hugging a person. She probably did something else that caused her to get kicked out.
I've previously written about the dances at our nudist club. This may be a bit off topic since actual hugging might not be involved, but there may be a lot of physical contact especially when people are slow dancing nude. I remember one time when a rather flirtatious woman danced nude with a male friend of ours who is married. No doubt she pressed her body against his more than he expected because he ended up getting an erection. Everyone could see it! He looked very embarrassed and quicky scooted off the dance floor. The woman and her male friend had applied for full membership but when the time came for them to get voted on, they didn't get in.
As a side note, there is a woman we are friendly with who attends various nudist events including house parties. She is rather overweight and likes to hug us and give us a slobbering kiss us on the lips. I tend to shy away from that because I don't want catch COVID or the flu. I think her intentions are harmless enough and I don't want to offend her. Sure enough, the last time we were at a house party, she wanted to do the same thing. I had given my wife a "heads up" ahead of time and so we were able to make up an excuse.
If that couple did not get membership because of his erection, then I think that is horribly unfair. We should not take offense over an erection, in my opinion. On the other note, yes, I've gotten hard before with body contact on the dance floor. The women seem to slyly enjoy knowing they caused that response rather than being offended.
If that couple did not get membership because of his erection, then I think that is horribly unfair. We should not take offense over an erection, in my opinion. On the other note, yes, I've gotten hard before with body contact on the dance floor. The women seem to slyly enjoy knowing they caused that response rather than being offended.
I doubt that was the only reason why they didn't get voted in. She may have misbehaved in other ways leading to the negative vote. I have seen other people misbehave on the dance floor and they didn't get in trouble, but they were mostly already voted in members. I absolutely agree with you that some women slyly enjoy knowing that they caused a man to become erect on the dance floor rather than being offended.
A couple of years ago, my wife danced nude with a male friend. He ended up getting an erection. My wife laughed about it when she was telling me about it later. She said that his erection was poking against her tummy. So, she wasn't offended at all. But he was a good friend. I'm not sure what her reaction would have been if the person wasn't a friend.
I have witnessed similar incidents at the dances through the years. Women dance nude with men who aren't their husbands and the men sometimes get an erection. I don't recall ever seeing a woman become offended by that. The guy might become embarrassed, but the woman usually has a smile on her face knowing that she caused the response.
Perhaps your wife's selection of dance partners is limited to those she wouldn't mind getting an erection as her dance partner. If she wouldn't be happy with that reaction, it's probably better not to take the dance in the first place. Especially when nude.
I will have to agree with Steve on this one. It seems unfair for the male population to be reprimanded for a natural occurrence of the species. It also looks rather silly to expect naked dance partners to touch closely at events like this and not sometimes get aroused; the unfair part is the woman can be aroused, but it doesn't physically show, while the male does grow. If he takes advantage of the stiffening, frolicking around like a peacock, that will cause concern; otherwise, most females would appreciate that "they still have it."
I will agree with you about the sloppy kisses. No thanks!
It seems unfair for the male population to be reprimanded for a natural occurrence of the species. It also looks rather silly to expect naked dance partners to touch closely at events like this and not sometimes get aroused; the unfair part is the woman can be aroused, but it doesn't physically show, while the male does grow."
I agree with you that it in theory it may seem unfair for a male to be reprimanded for a "natural occurrence". But I'm talking about a nudist club that is affiliated with the AANR. Displays of "suggestive familiarity" are against the rules. The reasons for this are obvious. The majority of members don't want to give the appearance that this is a swingers' club. They want to emphasize the wholesomeness of the nudist lifestyle.
But late in the evening at a dance the atmosphere tends to be more laid back. When a man and woman are dancing nude together, their intentions might not be entirely innocent. I personally don't think there is necessarily anything wrong with that. There have been a number of instances where I saw a man get an erection while dancing with his wife or someone else's partner. It has been very rare for a person to get in trouble for that.
Perhaps your wife's selection of dance partners is limited to those she wouldn't mind getting an erection as her dance partner. If she wouldn't be happy with that reaction, it's probably better not to take the dance in the first place. Especially when nude.
I think my wife is aware that, if she's going to dance nude with a man, there is the possibility that he could get an erection. But I don't think she consciously makes that calculation concerning a particular person unless she has observed him behaving inappropriately. I recall that she didn't dance with one person because of that reason. If a man were to get an erection while dancing with her, she probably wouldn't be offended just because of that.
As I described, there was one incident when a male friend got a full erection while dancing with my wife. And, yes, he was a good friend she liked so she didn't mind him getting an erection. But this didn't happen very often. Most of the men who are members of our club are very careful when dancing with my wife so as to avoid getting an erection. This is more out of respect to my wife rather than their concern that they might get in trouble.