Straight Guy / Gay Or Bi Friend
This is a group for the straight naked dudes out there who have one or more gay/bi friends and hang naked together (or gay/bi dudes who have naked staight male friends) ! Share your stories of your male bonding and friendship, how do you show affection for your gay/bi buddy (handshakes, hugs or ?) and what the friendship means to you as a straight male? Share pics of you hanging naked with your...
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Straight man.....
Return to DiscussionsI posted here several years ago, but I'm going to again as it's been so long. I'm a straight married man that would like a gay man as a buddy. I had a friendship with a gay man my age, but we just lost contact with eachother over the last few years. It's great having a guy to talk to that's able to look at life along my lines, but then again differently. I really miss not having a pal that I can talk to about literally ANYTHING, and get an honest and rational opinion/thought. No matter if the conversations vary From weather, to cars, to vacations, to baseball, or to sexual topics.
I'd like to find a buddy.
I know what you're saying. Met two couples at nudist camp. Now my best friends with benefits. The guys weren't bi per se. The wifes open to anything. Have played with both and all together but the best part has been the companionship and talking about anything and everything. As far as friends, they are the only ones that know I'm bi.
Hey man. I have a few straight buds local that I tell everything to and then me. I generally get along better with guys who arent after my cock cause 9 times out of 10 Ill give it to them. Lol. Im always open to new friends. HMU if interested.
Your story resonates! I have a few straight friends that although have best friends, and are very close, but just do not have a relationship that allows for very open and honest discussion/engagements without fear of judgement. Im a very open person so find it incredibly sad to know that there are guys out there (straight/bi/gay) who are unable to speak to anyone openly.
I have some straight friends, but it's difficult to find a straight guy who is secure enough in who he is to develop a close bonded relationship with another man -- because, "It's so gay" or they're afraid it'll turn them gay or something along those lines. All the men I've met who fit the bill live at least a ten-hour's drive away. It's difficult to drop over and hang out when there's a ten-hour drive between you.
I would truly enjoy having a male friend who was comfortable enough with himself to be nude with another man -- I'm a nudist. Naturist, actually.
Just come over, hang out, have a beer, watch a movie. Talk about anything and everything. If the subject turns to sex, be confident enough to not be concerned about popping a boner. Drip pre-cum. Who cares? We're men and we have men's bodies. They do these things.
I have some straight friends, but it's difficult to find a straight guy who is secure enough in who he is to develop a close bonded relationship with another man -- because, "It's so gay" or they're afraid it'll turn them gay or something along those lines. All the men I've met who fit the bill live at least a ten-hour's drive away. It's difficult to drop over and hang out when there's a ten-hour drive between you.I would truly enjoy having a male friend who was comfortable enough with himself to be nude with another man -- I'm a nudist. Naturist, actually.Just come over, hang out, have a beer, watch a movie. Talk about anything and everything. If the subject turns to sex, be confident enough to not be concerned about popping a boner. Drip pre-cum. Who cares? We're men and we have men's bodies. They do these things.
I find it very difficult to find gay men who are confident in that same thing. They have one or two meetups in them then it's too much intimate and revealing to be comfortable and you never hear from them again. I am not shy about it nor in a hurry to get sex or anything like a means to a goal and done scenario. I have always believed in sharing with others who appreciate nude and open social bonding and intimacy between men as the base of the friendship. Intimacy is not anything that is optional once you meet anyone but its not sexual by definition. It can be. But if you have never been close enough for a long hug or cuddle with your buddy both miss out on the chance of a good serving of exactly what heals and relieves men of pain revealing life's truth and beauty. Being skin to skin held or holding your buddy who appreciates that by returning it to you. It's not a big deal to be honest and close enough to make contact along a few places on the other.
I'm very much open to sharing my penis too and will gladly but I don't mind being totally honest and willing to explore him or restrain myself with him in the moment I have to offer myself as well as accept my buddies and the fact is that I have always believed that it's important to offer accept share and care for the sake of your buddies and their pleasure. I have traveled recently for those who have requested me in this regard as well as had men come here. I will travel to make it happen and get excited about the possibilities.