Respect For Women
This group is for those who have respect for women. It is fine to give complements to ladies, but we should be kind with comments to women.
- created by rickels61
Nudism and respecting naked women.
Return to DiscussionsThis all kind of goes without saying, but...
I am lucky enough to have a wife who will get naked at nudist venues and socialize with other nudists. The women we socialize with are also someone's wife/GF, whose husbands are lucky to have them willing to be naked in front of us. We all owe each other the respect to not make each other's wife uncomfortable. Some of us even have wives that are so comfortable and confident that they will tan and socialize with their legs open and their pussy exposed. As hard as it is - sometimes - to maintain eye contact (especially if they have pretty pussies), we have to.
My wife was disrespected once at a nude beach. She was topless at the time. A drunk "gentleman" kept leering at her tits; and told her she should take off her bottoms. She declined; and he continued pressuring her into going completely naked. His wife then chastised him and he stopped. But my wife had a hard time getting over it; and she's never been naked at a nude beach since.
On the other hand, she's always felt respected at the nudist resort. Even from the first time she took a "dare" and got on a paddle-board naked, people congratulated her on her confidence; not the fact that her pussy was fully exposed and open while straddling the board. That boosted her self-esteem, which then gave her the confidence to be comfortable being exposed around other nudists. Unironically, by virtue of respecting my wife when she's exposed, she's more likely to be comfortable around respectful nudists; which means they're likely to see and be able to appreciate "more" of her.
Hence the importance of respecting nudist women.
I am lucky enough to have a wife who will get naked at nudist venues and socialize with other nudists. The women we socialize with are also someone's wife/GF, whose husbands are lucky to have them willing to be naked in front of us. We all owe each other the respect to not make each other's wife uncomfortable...My wife was disrespected once at a nude beach. She was topless at the time. A drunk "gentleman" kept leering at her tits; and told her she should take off her bottoms... she's never been naked at a nude beach since.
It should go without saying that men should always be respectful to women regardless of whether they are nude. Unfortunately, it may only take one bad experience to ruin things. It was very unfortunate when that guy who was drunk told your wife that she should take off her bottoms. But that also raises another issue concerning the use of alcohol. Alcohol is no excuse. The drunk "gentleman" was no gentleman.
Alcohol is a double-etched sword in general; perhaps even more so when it comes to nudity.
My wife will openly credit "mild intoxication" with helping her being more outgoing, and more comfortable being seen naked and "exposed" at nudist venues. But once she "got there", she no longer had to rely on it. She now prefers to drink in moderation in nudist settings.
I've talked about my ex, and how being intoxicated with some nudist friends led to some flirting...and groping. In that case it was a "no harm, no foul" outcome; but had our male friend gotten hard, and pussy and dick come into contact, it could have turned into an entirely different thing.
Even for swingers, I would say that if your wife/GF has to be completely wasted to participate in a threesome/foursome, beyond the first few times; it might eventually become a problem. I have a friend who participated in group sex and had to be wasted every single time. And she has serious misgivings now about how "far" she went.
Alcohol is a double-etched sword in general; perhaps even more so when it comes to nudity.
Don't get me wrong. I don't fault a person for wanting to have a few drinks, especially if it helps them enjoy the social aspects of nudity. But if the alcohol contributes to a guy disrespecting a woman, that is unacceptable. I have witnessed a few incidents at our nudist club where people got in trouble because they had too much to drink. One incident involved a husband swearing at his wife during an argument. Another incident involved a man inappropriately touching a woman who was not his wife. That person was a visitor and he was told not to return. What is worse is when a person is a mean drunk. I have observed a few of those. If my wife and I are at a nudist event and a person she likes has had a couple of drinks and is a bit flirty with her, that is seldom a problem. That doesn't mean that it's okay for a guy to touch her inappropriately. I think the topic of alcohol and nudism is worth a whole separate topic.