Nudist women and pussy exposure
Return to DiscussionsOver the years I've noted various takes nudist women have about their pussy being seen.
The "pussy-shy": these are the women that take extra special care in making sure their pussy is not seen. They'll cross their legs while sunbathing/socializing, climb out of the hot-tub or pool sideways, and never bend over. It just seems like too much effort.
The "incidentally exposed": these are the women that do not intend for their pussy to be seen; but it happens as a function of just "moving around." Like while bending over to straighten their towel or straddling their lawn chair to apply sunscreen. It's usually a flash; as they'll readjust and hide the moment they realize their pussy can be seen.
The "obliviously exposed": these are the women that don't really put a lot of thought on whether their pussy can be seen or not. They might socialize or do activities with legs open and their pussy in plain view; but it's mostly because they are either very relaxed or not self-aware. My wife fits that category for the most part.
The "purposefully uninhibited": these are the women that have no hang-ups about their pussy being seen. As a matter of fact they consider it completely natural. You can find them laying by the pool or socializing with their legs open and a smile on their face. They are fully aware their pussy is fully exposed and embrace it.
I've known a few women in that category (which includes my ex-wife) and it's hard to not be completely captivated by the sights and variety. My ex had a "clean slit" (tiny labia). I've seen women with hanging lips, women with open vulvas. Sometimes right in front of my face. Beautiful.
I don't think we men can truly know what our women are thinking.
Many years ago, during my first marriage, I was much more "immature" when it came to such things. My then-wife, after initially being very shy, went through a phase where she decided to not by shy anymore - at all.
We were lounging by the pool. I went to the bathroom; and when I came back, I saw her bent over, applying sunscreen to her legs with one leg hiked up on the lounge chair. Her pussy and entire ass were completely visible from across the pool, and I saw some guys "admiring the view." So I walked over and said something to her about it, along the lines of "Hey...everyone can see your asshole..." She gave me a dirty look and a tongue-lashing. I realized then that I had made her self-conscious, and she was pretty mad about it.
I learned my lesson that day. I felt I was "protecting her"; but she wasn't looking for protection. It's hard to know whether she was fully aware of oblivious to her exposed posture. But what was clear that the last thing she wanted was for me to bring it up at all.
I should have just kept my big mouth shut!
We were lounging by the pool. I went to the bathroom; and when I came back, I saw her bent over, applying sunscreen to her legs with one leg hiked up on the lounge chair. Her pussy and entire ass were completely visible from across the pool, and I saw some guys "admiring the view." So I walked over and said something to her about it, along the lines of "Hey...everyone can see your asshole..." She gave me a dirty look and a tongue-lashing. I realized then that I had made her self-conscious, and she was pretty mad about it.
I learned my lesson that day. I felt I was "protecting her"; but she wasn't looking for protection. It's hard to know whether she was fully aware of oblivious to her exposed posture. But what was clear that the last thing she wanted was for me to bring it up at all.
I should have just kept my big mouth shut!
I'm pretty sure she knew what she was doing, and wanted to enjoy doing it.
A younger, immature me might have done the same trying to " protect " when it wasn't required.