Men In Cages
This group is for men who wear chastity cage for whatever reason. Please share your experiences.
"For whatever reason"
Return to DiscussionsI've enjoyed male chastity on occasion when I'm in a bottomy mood. But the other night I was into chastity to entertain my voyeur/exhibitionist side.. My goal was look-and-don't-touch--a sensory experience not focused on sex per-se. So I put on a stainless steel chastity device with key lock (had the lock in my locker, always the cautious one) and wandered around a sex club that has a very large outdoor cruising circuit and some indoor spaces set up with benches, slings, dark room, orgy spaces. Naked except for the shiny cage containing my dick. Some guys were curious, nobody approached. Of course I'm aware that I could have been really busy sexually that wasn't penis-focused, but that was not the point. I was taking in all that activity and not working on getting off (which is what usually happens with porn voyeurism). It was great just watching hot guys pleasure each other, in pairs and groups. And I enjoyed being the exhibitionist with shiny jewelry covering my dick. May try this again.
I've been to some sex clubs/kink parties wearing nothing but a chastity cage and leather collar. Unlike you, I was approached by many guys because I was obviously "a sub bottom looking for action".
I also have enjoyed being focused totally on other guys' penises at sex clubs when wearing a cock cage. It can be liberating and mind-blowing to be penetrated without any possibility of getting off yourself. One time I was getting fucked from behind and when the guy reached around and discovered I was caged I think his testosterone went into overdrive and we fucked like animals. Another guy seemed to like that there was no expectation of a reciprocating a blow job. It's not for all the time (I like to get off too), but it can be a real empowering experience, believe it or not.