Being smart and being funny make you a good conversational partner. If you can make me laugh, I think that's awesome. A healthy relationship flourishes when communication is clear.....Friendship between men and women is also desired. Being a friend to my partner means treating him in the patient, accepting manner in which you treat other close friends.

I think this is exactly how I'd like my encounters to happen. Not interested in going to some club and shagging with some random strangers I've never spoken more than three words with. Even though I don't really need emotions to have sex with someone (although in a relationship they are most definitely required), I still want my sex to be affectionate, passionate with a lot of kissing, caressing and fondling. I don't think that happens very easy with people I don't know at all. I spoke about this with my partner, and she agrees whole-heartedly.

Besides, if I'm gonna see my spouse having sex with someone else, I wanna know that that someone is a good person. I'm gonna want to have sex meanwhile, with someone else, too, and I don't want to have to watch over her all the time. That's not my idea of sharing and mingling. I want to participate in that group, not just observe. Of course I want to be close so that she can feel safe, but not control and watch over every single second.

So yeah, preferably find nice, funny people that you at least feel you can trust. Hang around with and not just have sex. Enjoy their company, then you can truly enjoy the sex, too. That's my take on it, anyway. :)

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