Curious Men And Women...

This group is for guys and girls who are stuck in the middle of their sexuality. Are we straight... Are we gay? Are we bi? Share some experiences on how you went from straight to bi or bi-curious, or even gay? How did you know your sexuality? How did you introduce being bi-curious or bi-sexual into your relationship? Share with us your experiences on introducing the bi life into the bedroom......

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I have always been straight. I did lose my virginity in a MFM. A friend of mine set it up with an older girl. We both had sex with her and it was great. But my friend and I never touched each other. I had an MFM experience one other time, same girl different guy. It was the same way. I'm in my 70's now and married to a woman who hasn't given e sex in over 18 years. Sex with her was always controlled by her and it didn't sink in to me that she was doing it. Not having sex for so long I'm experiencing a shrinking cock, ED and PE. I recently joined a gym that has a sauna in the men's locker room. When I first joined I noticed that guys were free to walk about nude which I liked. First time I went in the sauna I was nude but had a towel wrapped around me just to see what it was like and what other guys did. A guy came in and sat nude on a towel. SO I opened my towel and sat nude also. From then on I went in nude and sat on the towel for hygiene sake. One time another guy came in and sat on a towel nude. I couldn't help but look at his cock. It was flaccid but big, and a bit thick. It's only been recently that I like looking at guys cocks and balls. Never had a feeling about being with a guy, but just liked looking. This guy was different so some reason. I really liked his cock. He noticed me looking, slid his hand under his ball sack and lifted them up for me to get a better look. He did that several times for me to see his cock better. He didn't say anything. I think he did want me to look. It was the first time I had urges about a man's genital. When he got up to go shower, I told him he has a nice big cock. He thanked me and left. I waited a few minutes and went to the shower room also. This gym has a communal shower room with seven shower heads, Four on one wall and three on the other wall. I took the shower head across from his. He took a long time washing his body and carefully washing his cock which was getting a bit stiff. I did the same for him. He kept looking at me to see if I was looking. Never had an experience like that before. It was the first time in my life I was turned on by a man's cock. I've seen the guy a few times after that but never in the sauna or shower. Some times I wonder how far I would have gone with him. Could I have touched, stroked him? Could I have gone farther with him? I've seen other guy nude in the locker room and sauna but didn't have the same feeling. I am starting to enjoy being naked with other guys. But left with the thoughts of, how far would I have gone with him? Especially since I never had temptations for a guy before. Thanks for reading this long post. Comment if you want.

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