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- created by Ollygrumps
Too Tight
Return to DiscussionsI have a tight anus and wish it wasn't. Some of those toys from Ann Summers are just too big. I would also like to be able to accept a man inside me when the time is right. Do you have any hints for lostening it - a beginners guide?
- 12 years ago
I have a similar problem, but my reason for trying to be able to accept larger objects is for different reasons. A few women have wanted me to let them use a strap-on on me...
In order to not tear my rectum, I have used the body of a marker with lubrication or a condom over it. A highlight marker is still a little uncomfortable, so I don't know if I will ever learn to like it.... There is a video of me using a narrow marker in my profile.
- 12 years ago
I can take Ann Summers' starter butt plug at 9cm circumference (just under 3cm diameter), which is a bit bigger than a marker pen. I want to go up to 11cm or 12 cm circumference. Is there a way of easing it bigger?
- 12 years ago
I have the same problem Olly, my anus is too tight and wont accept a cock or toy either. I can get a small carrot up there after a while. I have decided to simply enjoy the pleasure of topping other men instead and its great. I sometimes get the desire to be ridden still from time to time tho...
- 12 years ago
Once you get something up your ass, your asshole expands. That can be a butt plug, dildo, or your fingers. With your fingers, you can start with one finger and then insert two fingers and then three fingers.
- 9 years ago
It's all about taking it slow, start small and work your way up in size. Of course lots of lube as well.
- 9 years ago
I have a tight anus and wish it wasn't. Some of thosetoys from Ann Summers are just too big. I would also like to beable to accept a man inside me when the time is right. Do you haveany hints for loosening it - a beginners guide?
Always lots of lube. Start with one finger. Do it often
and get it wider a little at a time. You'll run out of
fingers, and start on toys before long. Then you can start
leaving the toy in you a little longer each time. Then move up to bigger toys, a little step at a time. I'm now up
to 3-inch diameter (see my Photo in Butt Plugs group). You
won't get there quickly, but every little increase is worth the
effort.
- 9 years ago
It also helps to be super horny when you start ass play. Gently getting into it will allow you to relax.
- 9 years ago
It also helps to be super horny when you start ass play. Gently getting into it will allow you to relax.
I'll open up any day for you buddy! ;-)
- 9 years ago
At this minute, I have a dildo up my ass, and I am sitting on it.
- 9 years ago
I joined Getdare and was told I must wear my butt plug every time I have a shower for a whole year. That might loosen things up.
- 9 years ago