I have a fantasy that's at the same time desire to see my spouse with another man or woman, and I'd be having sex simultaneously with the other partner. So real bi swap, man-on-man, man-on-another-lady etc. You get the point.

Part of this is because I just love to see/feel/experience my lady enjoying herself, really get the pleasure juices flowing. I'm not too particulate who gets her high. She has also mentioned on several occasions and we've talked about more as well, that she'd love to lick and suck on someone else's pussy. She has had some experiences with fondling another woman, but they never got far. But she can definitely appreciate feminine beauty, so there's that.

I'm also very much into sucking cocks, and can also take it in. I haven't had anyone cum in my butt, yet, so that's one thing in the bucket list for sure.

But there's also the aspect that I don't want to be cast aside while my lady's having sex. I want to be part of it. I don't need to be in touch with her all the time, she can handle herself and I don't want to become controlling. But I'm just not turned on by the fact that I'd just be there, observing.

So, while I'd love to see and hear her receiving attention and getting immense pleasure, I also want that myself. Does that make sense?

Also, I've been entertaining the thought of having more than a few guys over. When she gets on that mood, she says she could just fuck and fuck and fuck, into eternity. She'd need many, but she doesn't like the idea of having many at the same time. So, as I mentioned before, I'd love to participate by sucking the guys hard, and then let them be used by my mistress. I could also totally see myself doing 69 with her while she's getting pounded. Occasionally helping the lad off by sucking him, then let him blow his load into her hungry cave. I'm sure that sounds like cuckolding, but again I'm not so sure as I want to be part of it all, not just sit there idly watching her get ravaged.

Does anyone share these thoughts? Are they strange? Do I sound too possessive? I've talked about my feelings and said to her that if she ever meets another woman she really wants to enjoy, and I'm not around, I wouldn't or couldn't get upset at all. Not one bit. I don't have those parts, properties or elements that she craves for in that regard. Just go for it, no questions asked, except how was it and how did it feel like, later on. ;) But another man... I don't know, then I would get a feeling that I'm just not enough and she needs more. That's fine, in a sense, I get that no one person may necessarily be able to make anyone else fully content for whole life. But if there's someone she'd just gotta have, someone she'd just met, and couldn't keep her hands off... Then it sounds like there's more to it than just sex, and that is the part that I'm not really ok with.

The whole thing is very different, mind you, when it's all planned and agreed in beforehand. Of course there might be mixed feelings there, too. But that's a risk one has to take to get some extra excitement, no? :) So to get back on the subject, what are your experiences, with the written above in mind, of interactions with another bi couple, and have they fulfilled your expectations? Or even exceeded them? Any let-downs?

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