A Swingers Diary
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It took a whole 1yr to convince my wife to have a mfm
Return to DiscussionsIt had been a long yr for me back in the 90's my wife an I were in our late 20's and she was very inexperienced we had been together since high school an she was a virgin back then her a senior me a Jr and all her friends would tease her because she was a virgin and her dad was really strick with her she had only had one boyfriend and they never really seen each other except passing in hall way changing classes idk if they even really made out he had a bunch of girls tho being a yr or 2 older than her then she got transferred to the school I was at and she was very shy and soft spoken she always wore dresses and nice tops she was prepping her self for a business career always looked her best so lots of guys wanted to ask her out but we're to chicken plus they knew she didn't give it up but me I always loved a challenge I was always flirty suggestive and made it point to point out what I liked when a girl dressed certain way but it took me asking her one day if she wanted to put my jacket on and she said I'm not cold and I told her yes u are know how I can tell and I wispered in her ear cuz I've been sitting here enjoying your hard nipple she was imbarresed and happy that I was hitting on her so I finally got her to let me drive her home cuz she would catch bus and I then told her I only live down the way I can pick u up and drop u off which gave me the in I needed she liked the attention I gave her and I had an eve job so we would spend time after school and i'd take her home way before dark so her dad never said anything but she would only let me kiss her out in public then one day school got out early and I took her and her friend to my friends house and our friends went into the room and left us alone finally I was up to bat we started making out and I was able to feel her up and some how I got her shirt up and got one of her tits in my mouth and she loved it till we heard them coming out of the room and she straightened up real quick it took my a good yr and at the time I didn't know this but also for her to have taken a little to much allergy med for me to get in her pants I just thought she really didn't want to act like she wanted to she was lying on the bed we were making out and I start to take her pants off and she asked what was I doing I said I'm going to make u feel good and when I took my pants down it was a struggle to get in to her she was so tight and I pumped her for a bit and then when I was done I got dressed and she just laid there as much as I liked the view I told her she had to get dressed my parents would be coming hm soon and this wasn't my first rodeo but what happened next I never had happen she starts getting up and to get dressed and she noticed she was bleeding and so she goes in bath room and from the med an blood lose she got weak and couldn't stand blood all over my bathroom and she had white pants on so I had to call a girlfriend of mine and get some help that's when she told me what was going on cuz she was a virgin and that's when my girl tells me about to much med I had to some quick cleaning and washing while I got her to ly down in my bed and play it off like she was sick and as soon as she had enough strength I packed her in the car took her home her dad didn't know but I think her mom did so after that horrible 1st time she didn't want to try it again she didn't remember much except for the falling down and bleeding part so I convinced her to let me have another Crack at it so I pull out my cock and she had never seen one she gets concerned your going to put that big thing in my little spot I said that's how it works and me just being a young guy didn't know about foreplay or taking my time she kept making excuses for maybe not doing it again so soon but I told her she'll stretch enough for me to get inside and we tried it and she was so tight it not only hurt her it hurt me felt like her pussy was peeling the skin off my dick so she wouldn't let me stay in very long and I tried to convince her we had to do it more for her to get used to it well so then I had a plan hit it quick get in get out before she stopped it which she would always complain about after any ways that she was soar for days after so I said how about this start giving me blow jobs and she said idk how to do that and I'm not asking anyone how to do it no I remembered hearing a old girlfriend tell her friend how to do it just put it in your mouth and suck it like a lollipop I told her and up till this point I still think she hadn't touched my cock she was all freaking out put that in my mouth that big ol thing and I told her all girls do it so she tries and I'm encouraging her telling her how good it feels and how my cock is going to get big and hard in her mouth then all of a sudden I felt the cum coming and I told her your going to make me cum so your going to and I came before I could tell her what was going to happen and she was what the heck was that I told her that's what happens when I cum goo shots out and said she didn't like the way it tasted or felt in her mouth so I told her it a taste u will get used too and end up liking u just have to taste it a few times like beer nobody likes the taste of beer the first time u get used to it so these experiences had her holding back on sex we did it maybe 6 times 1st yr after her first time and she kept telling me I'm just to big but she wouldn't let me try any lube on her she didn't like condoms she came back after a few times giving me head saying girls don't like doing that she tells me she asked all of her girlfriends if they sucked dick and they all told her no and I knew she was lying about that because I knew for fact a few of her friends gave blow jobs so sex with her was very uneventful more like go ahead and she'd cringe like when we would do it she then one day started to give me blow jobs again oh I should say that she had heard that I had been messing around with other girls and she had started working at a store where the guys would hit on the new girls and all try and sleep with them she even told me that's what they do didn't matter married or not so we were already having problems and she had made new friends there female's who knew what the game was trying to mess with the new girls but there were a couple who also told her to try some new dick see what's out there one girl told her to try as many dicks as she could till she found one to marry and she like that her friend fucked who she wanted and didn't care who knew and alot of the guys wanted to fuck her cuz she was known to be a good fuck and give killer bj's so had noticed a change in her one thing was when she would drink cuz she never really did that she would get into sex and enjoy it but that's the only time she would allow her self to let go so she started going out with friends and calling me saying she had to work late so we would go do our own thing till she started giving bj's and it didn't hit me till yrs later that she had got busted one nite out at a friends house drunk by a guy she had started seeing he found her she said naked with this other guy in bed she was passed out so got her up and took her home I found that and more way later because I was working graveyard and she had given in to the attention at work she also started seeing her supervisor I just happened to get up to go to bathroom and she didn't notice me cuz she was busy telling her girlfriend that this guy had a huge dick unbelievable big so I only caught a few words and stand there and listen to her describe how big he was and how hard it was for her to take him but she enjoyed it cuz he would ask her if she was good could she handle it and would hold her legs open as far as they could so he could get in her with the least resistance and I had thought she had been messing around cuz acouple of the times we ended up having sex she had sex with him earlier and she was noticeably gapped not as tight and so I knew something was up but waited till I had proof to say anything and so I busted her right on the phone she confessed and I was mad but I made her tell me everything when it started how it started how many times did they do it how did they do it but I also kept thinking of my shy quiet girl that she had been taken advantage of cuz of her innocence and inexperience I had even been told that her supervisor was so turned on with her how he would make her scream into the pillow and how he had to stretch her legs so wide that he wanted some of the guys to see her take his cock so he would hide guys in the closet then they would watch and how she described how big his cock was started turning me on to want to see her take a huge cock so since I couldn't get her to open up and relax during sex I started telling her I wanted to see her suck another and watch him play with her she at first thought I was just messing with her but I kept mentioning it bring it up during sex teasing her telling her that I had asked some guys I knew she liked if they wanted to join us till she finally started getting into it and saying what she would do and started getting cocky like she would do it so I had already asked a friend if he was cool with jpining us and told her he and I had been talking about it so she knew he was probably going to be the one but she didn't really trust that I had told him or showed him some naked pics of her till a few weeks earlier he wasn't even sure she was on board cuz how innocent she plays and inexperienced she portrays to be so we had a party and we had all gotten drunk and I passed out it was only us three left and he mentions to her that I asked if he wanted to join us for sex and caught her off guard but she told him that we had talked about it so he thought I was faking being passed out and she reassured him no I was out so he starts to ask her questions about her past sexual exploits and he also complements her on her body and she asks if I had shown him her pics he told her yes and that she had nothing to be ashamed about she was hot that's when I think she was all in if it happened he was at our house everyday all the time so it was just finding the right time when she was horny other wise it wouldn't happen cuz like I said our sex was not that easy flowING kinda sex she always had restrictions dps an don'ts don't go too deep don't push my head down when she's blowing cock if I didn't cum soon enough and she didn't stay wet to bad try again another time she didn't like me holding her legs up to long a list of up tightness so I held out for 2 weeks on her no sex and she was wanting it trying to rub on me dress sexy. But I held out and St the end of two weeks we were watching TV and she went to bed it was summer so she just had panties on after she had went to bed my friend came over we had a few beers and she was a pretty hard sleeper.so I ask my friend if he wants to see he ass he says for real ya she's out we'll sneek in ill.show u her ass he asks what if she wakes up I told him to then sit back in the corner in the dark she'll never know he's there so we get in the room and I pull the cover back and and she's on her stomach I pull her panties down half way and I ask if he wants to touch her he's worried what if she gets up I told him fall to the darkness and she'll think it's me but he didn't so then I told him sit in corner and just watch us then I'll get her up he sits back I undress and climb in bed I start touching her and she gets horny quick tired of waiting for it we start making out she'spushing her body all over me I'm fingerings her she yanks on my cock and tells me how she's been wanting my cock she is hovering over my hard cock now fingerings her self liking and sucking my dick right in front of my friend and she doesn't know so while she's sucking me I tell her iv'e got a suprise for her and she's sucking asking what it is so I tell her I brought a friend home and he's waiting in the living room for her to go get him but she thinks this is just more role playing so she said ya right I tell her go and get him if u don't believe me go out there and see then I ask her if he's here what u going to do she still working my cock she looks at me and keeps saying I'm lying but if someone else was here i'd ride him and put on a show for u.and I'll
Have to suck him too she was getting cocky so I told her for reals someone's here to join us and now she slows down giving it a second thought if I'm telling her the truth or not so I tell her I don't think u could do it you would chicken out she says she would so I again tell her I did bring someone hm but he's already in here and she was working my cock pretty good I said he's watching u and now she almost stops not knowing if to believe me or say what she would be doing with us and I tell her mrk is in here she looks around doesn't see anyone or hear anyone so tell her again I asked if he water to watch u and I call on him and he doesn't answer so now she's really wondering so I call out to him again and tell him to say something so he clears his throat and she falls onto the bed cuz he was right behind her and she pulls cover over her self he tells her it's to late for that i've already seen every thing so I pull the cover back off and she just lays there naked like ok and I t ol ld her I wanted him.to watch us have sex because I want to show her off thinking she would go for that better than him joining in and she says that's not right y u going to do that to him what's he supposed to do when we're done I said go hm and Jack off unless u don't mind him jacking off while he's watching she said that not right to get him all turned on like that so I said ok. You want to give him head while I'm pumping u she says idk then he says im only going to join in if she says she's ok with it so I ask her again do u want to suck his dick while I pump u and she says I don"t think he would want me to I tell her he will let u and he said I'm not doing anything until she says she's good with every thing I had to point out that she couldn't be much clearer about being ok with it than telling u she'll suck your dick she already said she isn't comfortable with u just watching cuz that will just get u fustrated so she'll suck your cock all u need to do is pull it out an put it in her mouth so I get on top of her start pumping her on the edge of the bed my friend unzips his pants starts to give her his dick then pulls back an she's was reaching out ready wondering what happened he decides to just undress then walks over and she starts sucking him like she was born to do this I changed her into a few diff positions but everyone she had his cock in her mouth and after that we were at it for just a couple hours she had a sore jaw from that the next night my friend came over and I asked him if he wanted to do it again he was like ya so I go and ask my wife if she wanted to go again and she was like I don't feel right and I was wondering what happened cuz after he had left we both talked and liked it she enjoyed it so since she was in bed I told my friend that she was having second thoughts about it and to go talk to her to see what happened so he goes in the room undresses and climbs in bed next to her and starts asking her what's a matter didn't she like last nite and she says that's not it he asks if it was him she didn't like how he was and she said no she liked every thing sucking him him touching her then she tells him the problem is I liked it to much I shouldn't like it so much cuz I'm going to want it more then we a sure d her it was OK and we kept having him over 4-5 nites a week for the first 4mos then we slowed down to 3-4 nites and that's how I got her to relax and enjoy what was happening and my friend didn't get the same restrictions as I had and so I would encourage him to go deep so she'd get used to it she at first too would push his hand off her head or she'd try to get him to stop pushing her head down on his cock while sucking him but he would keep doing it so she just gave up and he talked her how to control her gag reflex and to go all the way down and hold it guys love that and he had a 9in cock she learned to take him all the way down and impressed him he said only one or two girls had ever been able to go all the way down on him she improved in all her moves but some thing had made me wonder since we first started and I told my friend didn't it seem a little odd that she didn't have trouble in any of the positions we got her in she could take that cock and keep on sucking no problem so I told him she's either a natural or she's done this before the next day I brought it up with her telling her what I told him and I said so which one is it just a natural or you've done it before and she confesses I might of done it before I couldn't believe it so I had to know when she tells me remember when Robert found me naked in bed with Harvey at Kristys I said ya she says I don't remember much but I might of had a threesome w/2 guys that nite I don't remember we were to drunk I was like no way that's not something u forget she tried to say all she remembered was the guys kept putting there cocks in her face telling her to suck then she tells me the story of how she was mad at me that nite and so her friend kept giving her shots and she didn't drink so she was pretty wasted an at the end of the party she was looking for Kristy and found her in the bed room naked with 3 guys so she asks how come she wasn't invited and then next thing she remembers was being naked and telling the guys her rule was they could touch her and she'd suck them but no putting there dicks inside her and then her an her friend were shared for most of the nite but she she vouldn't remember y the guys had to keep reminding her to suck I figured it out cuz when she was drunk and was getting fucked good she would till her head back and moan from being inexperienced so that's y the other two or one would have to remind her to keep sucking that nite is the nite she realized she liked sucking cock and the taste of cum right after that is when she started giving me head again I didn't know y till she told me the whole story so I asked her how much cum did u swallow that nite she just said lots that's h ow she started enjoying swallowing and the taste of cum too then she tells me that the guy she woke up next to wanted to go out with her and he stayed with her after she tried to say every body paired up I said nobody paired up there were 3 guys 2 girls every body was done and since he liked u he saw his chance to have u to him self and I knew two of the guys they told me and some other guys about that nite and had pics but they weren't ready yet or I would of been shocked they didn't know she was my girl they knew her friend would do what ever one of those guys asked cuz she liked him and my girl had never been able to be the slut of the nite and she wanted to be from being watched so c lose her whole like she ended up enjoying it