Lots of people get a thrill from seducing their massage therapist. I can understand that but remember that most masseurs want to have some control over the session so they can meet their other obligations during the day. I find it most productive to give a full therapeutic massage and mix in the erotic work as I go along. Usually, I will add at least an additional half hour to the session time so there is ample room for everything. I find that as I do the therapeutic work it relaxes the client so I can move more easily move to whatever erotic stuff they would like to see happen. Masseurs have multiple clients a day and we have to pace ourselves and keep our edge. Erotic/sexual work has been part of my massages for years but just check in with masseurs before you book a session to see if it can take some erotic/sexual direction. We will give you an honest answer. Masseurs who work in gyms. spas and chiropractic offices are unlikely to do any erotic work in their offices and may want to receive you instead in their homes. You don't have to be totally specific on what you would like to have happen but you might relate to your masseur some of your previous experiences or hint at your fantasies so the masseur has some sort of roadmap. We are here to please. As you can see in my profile, I have no problem showing my nude body, cock, and ass. Some masseurs living in conservative areas might be more hesitant, so approach it understanding their caution. There is nothing wrong with having more than one email exchange or conversation with the masseur before you book the appointment but don't waste a masseur's time with constant conversation and messages if you have no intention of ever making the appointment. I don't really have boundaries but respect those of masseurs that do. Our time is valuable. Many of us work long hours and we often sacrifice our personal life to the massage practice because we usually work nights and weekends when other people get to play. When I was first building my business, I had clients coming at 6 am and midnight.

What I have found after two decades of giving massages is that many of my clients are inexperienced, They may never have had a massage or they don't have any man-to-man erotic experience. Some take to it quickly, others may need several sessions before they can go through the list of things they would like to experience. Many of these men are in committed relationships that require discretion. Good erotic massage therapists will offer that to them graciously I tell my clients I am giving them a very private, safe place to experience things and experiment as they wish. Most of all, they can try something, perhaps fail at it and there are no reprisals. This isn't a date, in multiple ways, this really is a therapy session. I'm bisexual which gives me a better understanding of all kinds of personal relationships. If lying to your partner is going to be a problem for your relationship bring him or her to some sessions as well so they can see what is going on. Maybe the partner will want to get up on my table too. I like helping people find their authentic selves as they relax their bodies.

P. S. I've written a number of stories about my erotic massage work that are posted in the "blogs" section of my profile

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