Can Group Sex be an ADDICTION?

Here we go: I have found myself married to the Love of my Life and I want us to live happily ever after! The problem is, I have always been in swinging or open relationships. She has not. Tho she has experienced the lifestyle with an ex, she did not likehow she felt afterwardsorwhat it did to that relationship. Mostly because her ex was the jealous type but also tried to share her with his brother. That was the beginning of the end for them.But I would Love to share her with other men but she doesn't want to.Not on a regular basis mind you. Only twice a year(my suggestion) Once for my birthday each year with one lucky man that we both pick out. And the second would be a group of 5-8 guys plus me during our summer vacations. She has said no and referred to her ex and each time I even fantasize about it, she pulls further away.And now we are at an impasse and I am truly scared about our future. I want this so much that I am almost willing to get her drunk as hell to do it but I don't want to harm her or make her hate me afterwards. So I started considering sex addiction counseling. But I've been thru it before for multiple partnersand yet here I am again. Can group sex be addicting? Do I have an addiction? I like the way I am and I have never felt that my sexual preferences has caused any problems in my past relationships; but she is certain that it will be a big problem for us. Are there any couples on here that have success stories? Or does it always lead to space and separation?

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