I am also in the same boat. It has been many years since we have had sex. I have found masturbation to fill the void but, have recently found the company of buds like myself to be very exciting. Two or more guys hanging out on cam, having a bate and talking about what ever gets us hard has been so much fun. I hang here, TN and have some nice skype buds but, really wish I had some men to hang with in real life. Have a beer, watch a movie, get naked and play around. For now I am thankful for the great guys I have met so far.
In the same boat here men. Because of the wife going through the change it's been years since we've had any relations. Masturbation by myself just doesn't cut it.
I have always liked looking at other guys' cocks and when the sex stopped I started exploring the "other side." I enjoy the mutual masturbation side of life cuz it's fun, but more so I enjoy the cock to cock and oral. I also enjoy just hanging naked with other dudes, having some beers and looking. It's just being naked and accepting who we are sometimes that counts.
Smitty
Any guy who has this experience deserves a good chance to experience pleasure and sexual satisfaction. I'm definitely always available for guys in this situation. It's unfair to have sex cut off. And nice to have a buddy who is open willing and who delivers what is asked for.
I am a gay man who has met a few guys in recent years that probably wouldn't be having sex with men except that their wives have given up sex. They just like sex and are comfortable with either gender (and pretty darn skilled). But one told me that he feels less like he's cheating with a guy than he would with a woman. He is a very affectionate lover, and had a 12 year relationship with his bestie. Both couples were friends, like in Grace and Frankie. In his case I wonder if he really would have chosen a male partner in a different world. Maybe his wife wasn't a great lover because he really wasn't that good with a her either (but oh he was good with me). There are so many variations and permutations in sexual desire.
I'm gay and love sex with horny guys but for some reason I find sex with a bi or " straight " guy particularly horny especially if I'm fucking his ass, do any other gay guys on here feel like this too
Trust me, no one is bisexual because their wives stopped having sex with them. People don't magically become queer because wives stop having sex. Society may engineer people to not act on their same-sex desires (heteronormative ideal of monogamy with a woman will do this), but that doesn't mean that guys were not bisexual beforehand - it just means guys suppressed it.
I heard an expression that applies here. "If you don't give your boyfriend blow jobs, he'll find someone who will." I started looking at gay and bi porn while still married. I had my first experience with a guy after I got divorced. I discovered that I liked giving as much as getting.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and reply to this even though its been years ago when I was married for whole year. I was born and raised in the mid-south where everyone was religious and had similar attitudes about sexuality. Sex was done in the privacy of your home with your spouse. Period. Being bi or gay or whatever was either a sin or you were called horrible names and shunned. I knew I was different from an early age so I left there as soon as I could. Even though I've had more sex with men than women I still consider myself bi.
I currently have two married buddies who I see on a regular basis. I introduced one to TS and he is a member now here on TS. We have shared women and men. I have met many other men who have been unsure about the whole "bi" experience and are extremely nervous about their own sexuality. I offer them the opportunity to explore themselves and the experience. No pressure, no touching unless they are completely comfortable with it. I talk to them and ask them questions about what they want to do or what turns them on and what they don't want to do. I only go as far as they are comfortable with. Some have wanted to get a blow job or jack off and go. Only to never be seen again. Some have wanted to go further. Some I'm still seeing. Some have stopped contacting me completely (One guy and I got close enough to that we started texting. Until the wife found our texts and sent me a horrible nasty text. I still think about him and wish him well).
One of my buddies wanted me to meet his wife so that we could play together. I had to ask him a lot of questions regarding her attitude about it. He wasn't sure. I asked him if opening up to the wife about us was worth getting a divorce and was he keeping his college age kids in perspective. Things to consider for sure!
I agree with what some of you have said. Being bi or gay is always there in each of us. Something happens in your life that brings it to focus and we finally act on it. If you're reading this more out of curiosity and not sure if you want to act on it then I suggest taking small steps at first. Talk with someone you trust and know and get those questions answered or that itch scratched. Trust me, you'll know if its right for you or not. I'm here to help you all in anyway I can (lol.) I will gladly suck you or fuck you or jack off on cam with you. I cool if the wife wants to watch as well. Or if you're in my Area and want to meet I'm open for that.
Nude hard hugs to you all,
Rick
Seattle
Yeah, me too doing without pussy. My wife is very dry. She's tried different creams, lubes, nothing works. I like to handle cocks. Look at cocks. Have a cock in my mouth if it's not too big. But I like being on the receiving end too. I'd really like a good blowjob. Something I never get at home. Not even a handjob. If anyone is near Boone, NC and wants to hang out, let me know.
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