Seeing my wife "turn" into an exhibitionist
Here's a story about my ex-wife's adventures into exhibitionism.
She didn't start out that way. It was a very slow development. When we first went to nudist resorts, she was quite shy and usually kept on a sarong. She didn't feel that she had a body "good enough" to be seen completely naked. If she happened to be sunbathing nude - in the back of the pool area - and someone stopped by to say "Hi!", she would pull the sarong up between her legs to hide her crotch. This went on for a 2-3 years; and I figured she'd never really be comfortable naked around people.
Then something happened. We were invited by some online friends to attend a nudist get-together. My wife reluctantly agreed to go; but told me right off the bat that her sarong was staying on the entire time. I figured as much.
We got there; and my wife managed to befriend some of the other women there. She was the only woman covering up. One of them told her she had a great body and should show it. Next thing I know, my wife is walking around naked with the other women! Some of the guys there gave her very positive affirmation, complimenting and encouraging her. I was in shock. And the more she interacted with the people there, the more she seemed to enjoy people looking at her naked body. What I didn't realize was the effect the validation she'd received would have on her.
A few months later, it was spring again and time to go back to the resort. The night before, she disappeared in the bathroom for a while; and reappeared completely shaven. She didn't say a word about it.
We arrived at the resort the next morning; and she indicated that instead of sitting in the back of the pool area as usual, she wanted to sit right in front of the pool, facing the entrance. And in one swift move, she pulls off her sarong and started applying sunscreen, naked. But that wasn't all. She lays next to me, I look over at her, and she's lounging with her legs open facing the pool. Anyone in the pool or entering the pool area can see her glistening pussy fully exposed. Again, I'm in shock. I can't really say anything, because, after all, I had been trying to get her to stay naked around people. I just had no idea how far she'd go with it!
That would just be the beginning, and there are far too many anecdotes to mention in one post. But here's a few.
At one point, she started just wearing a sarong on the drive to the resort. More often than not her sarong would end up on the floor on the way there. I have no idea how many truckers have seen her naked. One time I stopped to get gas and motioned to her to pull up her sarong. As I'm pumping gas I look over and see that her sarong is only up to her waist! I have no idea how many people saw her tits as they walked past.
On another occasion we were hanging out with some nudist friends, and a male friend complimented her on her "sexy curves." My wife then proceeded to jump on his lap and give him a face hug with her tits. I don't think this would have gone the "swinging route"; but it definitely gave our friend a nice "cop and feel" as he got to grab her ass and tits in the process.
She's also walked in front of our house naked after returning from the resort and leaving her sarong in the car.
I remember one time telling her that a guy was staring at her exposed pussy at the resort; and she then proceeds to open her legs even more!
My wife did not give "half hugs" to other nudists. She gave "full-body" ones. I don't think anyone disliked my wife's big tits being pressed against their chest; not even women! One of my favorite things, of course, was watching her tits pressed against another woman's!
I'm actually surprised none of the other nudists ever complained about my wife being "too sexy." But then again, she was also a lot of fun to hang out with.
Something happened that day at the get-together. She realized people liked seeing her naked; and it triggered an "exhibitionistic impulse" she didn't know she had. And she ran with it. She liked making an impression on people; which included being completely exposed and uninhibited in front of them. It was a "phase" in her life; and it didn't last forever. But even after it was done, she never regretted it.
A friend of mine once asked me how "I could be ok with that." Admittedly, it initially took some "adjustment" on my part. But I was also very proud of my sexy "exhibitionist nudist wife." To the guys that got to see her pussy up close or feel up her naked body: congratulations and enjoy! No jealousy there; at the end of the day she was coming home with me.
You just never know what effect social nudity can have on a woman!
Thanks very much for sharing your story. My wife and I are very new to nudism and I'm really hoping that she will eventually get the courage to do as your wife did. I think it's really a matter of confidence but might well take some time to get there.
Absolutely!
The "trick" is to be encouraging without being pushy. Shower her with praise for every step taken in being more confident. And of course be patient: it took my wife many trips and meeting many nudists before she embraced being seen naked.
Nice story, shame she's now your ex, hope it wasn't due to the exhibitionism.
It reminds me of an ex girlfriend, she was very open to nudity at home, but I couldn't get her to go naked anywhere else. The funny thing was, when I started going out with her, she had 2 sons, 13 and 16, and a daughter aged 10, she had absolutely no problem walking around totally naked in front of her kids, I brought it up in conversation one day about being naked in front of her sons and she said she didn't have a problem with it and her sons had never said anything, I thought to myself that they wouldn't would they, their mum wasn't a dog, she didn't have big tits or anything, she was quite flat, but she had very big juicy nipples, always erect and naturally bald pussy. I joked with her that she wouldn't like it if I walked around naked in front of her daughter, and she called my bluff and said it wouldn't bother her and she thought it probably wouldn't bother her daughter either. So my bluff had been called and I couldn't let her win, so I started slowly being naked in front of her kids, the daughter would sometimes come in to the bedroom in the morning and jump in bed with us, I had started going to bed naked and she was a little surprised the first time when she lifted the covers to get in and she saw me lying there naked, but she did start jumping in bed with us every morning, I'd wake up at 5am to go to work and she'll be in the bed cuddled up to me, she even started to get in the bed naked with us, as we were both naked, her mum didn't seem to mind so I kept quiet about it. Then I started walking from the bedroom to the bathroom naked, in front of her sons and her daughter, there wasn't a lock on the bathroom door, they were like the old saloon doors like the western saloons had, apparently, one of the kids got locked in the bathroom when they were younger and it took a long time to get the door open, so after that she took the lock off, plenty of times people would walk in on you when you were in the bath, having a shower or on the toilet, it could get awkward if you was going for a number 2.
At first she only went naked upstairs, but after I started walking around the house naked, I would go downstairs, stand at the open back door in an open dressing gown to have a smoke, don't smoke anymore, so she started walking around the whole house naked as well, we would often sit down naked in the living room and watch tv with her daughter in the evenings even she started walking around the house naked as well and would often sit on mine or her mothers lap watching tv, the boys were totally boring, they would never leave their room.
Like I said, she had small tits but large nipples and I would try and get her to go out with a coat on, she had this string top that her nipples would poke through if she wore nothing under it, she'd wear it in the house without a shirt under it, but she wouldn't go outside like that. It took me a while, but she eventually went to the shops wearing just that on top, to start it was just the local shop up the road and gradually to the big shopping centre in town, then I'd get her to tell me what happened and it always got me hard when she told me, so much so that we ended up having to wait until bed time for her to tell me cause her daughter walked in a few times when she was telling me and she was jerking me off, now that was embarrassing, although thank god she was at an age she didn't really understand that sort of thing yet.
Now that girlfriend was a bit of a nympho, and I found out that she was fucking some guy behind my back during the day when I was at work, it was actually her sons that told me and when I confronted her about it she didn't deny it, so that split us up, it was a good job I hadn't moved in with her fully, I still had my own place.
I think back now and I think I don't think her fucking another guy was the problem, it was her doing it behind my back, I mean like I said, she was a bit of a nympho and it was getting to stage I was tired all the time, getting up late for work every day, I play these adult games and there's a lot of games involving netorare, where the wife/ gf fucks other guys while the husband/bf watches and the thought of that is a bit enticing to me, but alas I'm totally single these days, but I think she would have been totally up for that.
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