I meant to add (months ago...) that while I champion positive sexuality and clothing freedom, I take great care in considering whether any women would be offended by either my nudity or my erection. The critical question is always security. Does she feel safe? Will she give an indication of how she feels? .... safety is nearly a constant concern. As a smaller man, I had projected my own sense of peacefulness onto women's minds. So for at least this half my life.... Only if I have a pleasant conversation, where I have a strong sense of her ease, do I consider upping the temperature.
You are right that the critical question is always security. I can also relate to you being a smaller man as I am smaller too. I would think that a smaller man would be viewed as less of a threat to a woman. I would try to project my harmlessness to a woman so as to put her at ease. The clothing optional beach that I used to frequent had mostly guys. The fact that women were outnumbered would have added to their sense of vulnerability. The women who did go there were usually in groups of 2 or 3. Most of them wore swimsuits whereas the males went nude (CFNM).
Like you, I would usually have a "pleasant conversation" with a woman (or group of women) before allowing myself to "up the temperature". But, at the same time, I wasn't overly concerned about the possibility that a woman might become offended if I were to become erect. I would be somewhat discreet as to when I let it happen. For example, it might be when we were quietly sunbathing after we had been talking for a while. Hopefully, she would think that this was a spontaneous erection as I was enjoying the sun. Besides, even if she were to become offended, there wouldn't be any real harm as I think the person would still view me as being harmless.
I meant to add (months ago...) that while I champion positive sexuality and clothing freedom, I take great care in considering whether any women would be offended by either my nudity or my erection. The critical question is always security. Does she feel safe? Will she give an indication of how she feels? .... safety is nearly a constant concern. As a smaller man, I had projected my own sense of peacefulness onto women's minds. So for at least this half my life.... Only if I have a pleasant conversation, where I have a strong sense of her ease, do I consider upping the temperature.You are right that the critical question is always security. I can also relate to you being a smaller man as I am smaller too. I would think that a smaller man would be viewed as less of a threat to a woman. I would try to project my harmlessness to a woman so as to put her at ease. The clothing optional beach that I used to frequent had mostly guys. The fact that women were outnumbered would have added to their sense of vulnerability. The women who did go there were usually in groups of 2 or 3. Most of them wore swimsuits whereas the males went nude (CFNM).Like you, I would usually have a "pleasant conversation" with a woman (or group of women) before allowing myself to "up the temperature". But, at the same time, I wasn't overly concerned about the possibility that a woman might become offended if I were to become erect. I would be somewhat discreet as to when I let it happen. For example, it might be when we were quietly sunbathing after we had been talking for a while. Hopefully, she would think that this was a spontaneous erection as I was enjoying the sun. Besides, even if she were to become offended, there wouldn't be any real harm as I think the person would still view me as being harmless.
Thank you for this! I rarely get out on the sand these days, but I frequent hotel pools when traveling. If they aren't busy, I wear a thong, either bikini or one-piece. But on those occasions where I feel nudity is okay, meaning not likely to make anyone uncomfortable, I usually get a boner. I have been in such situations often enough that I have a good sense of whether I'm likely to offend anyone. The best of those is when women are grouped and feel secure. Then my nudity makes _me_ less secure but, because of that insecurity, more aroused. Sigh, outdoor nudity seems like it will keep getting rarer in the US, which is a terrible shame! Nude life tends to create and nurture great relationships!
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