starting again after Anal Pause...

Hey guys, I used to get anal a lot and I was told my butt felt great, but when the pandemic happened I stopped getting anal... now I want to go back and enjoy getting it again... would I be too tight now and need to take it easy or muscle memory will kick in?

What you need is an understanding partner who will take his time relaxing you making you feel desirable capable and horny and who will then eat and tongue your anus slow carefully seductively and for a good long while getting you progressively wetter and wetter with his spit... and when you're fully relaxed he will be able to slide into you so easily you will be excited and surprised, then super proud. The ass is never where the tightness is unless there is a medical or genetic reason for it to be, which is exceedingly rare, the muscle is capable of stretching wide much wider than almost any man's penis, and (excuse the crudeness of the observation) every man who is worried about his ass being tight regularly shits out logs longer and wider than almost any man outside of porn... usually fairly easily. The tightness is in the mind, for all kinds of reasons. Many perfectly valid, like most of us have had it done badly the first time and that's not a good memory even at the subconscious level where it tends to settle most of the time... being out of the loop causes nervous anxiety as does the long period of less or little to no intimacy with others... you need someone who knows when it should go easy and when you're ready for more, I think like most muscles in the body, it may have gotten less in shape than it was but that would have the opposite effect of tightening it up. I am pretty sure you're just as good at it as you ever were. I'd go with that premise and expect as good as he ever was or better than most top to break you back into it... without breaking anything, just the run of not getting fucked in the ass... which is a good habit to break. Take your time and enjoy relearning and remaking your anal pleasure any way you want man... when you've had ample experience again then you'll know what you can handle and desire, and be confident from recent experience that you will be getting those same compliments again.

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