How to get husband on board
New to this site, I am looking for advice for getting my husband on board for swinging, possible sex clubs. It must be unusual for a woman to be asking this I am sure. I am 24 he is 26. We are both attractive but I need more of a sex life than he can give. I do not want to out and out cheat I would like it to be a consensual thing for both of us. It will be difficult with him because he is jealous. But something has to happen. If there are any women out there that have a similar problem please write back. Stephanie
I'm in the same situation, just trying to get my wife on board...
maybe i can talk to him and you can to talk to my wife and we will convince them? lol
I also asked this question and the advice i got was to start slow step by step. first to a nude hotel then maybe sex club (without swinging) and maybe later on... but he need to adjust to the idea...
You have to drag him along on this journey. Are you naked around the house a lot - and encourage him to be naked with you. Get some porn and watch it together and comment on how you'd like to try that some day. Become more aggressive in bed with him. Have more spontaneous sex, like in places and at times he doesn't suspect (meet at door naked, in the car, in the park, before breakfast, in the bathroom, in the shower) and have fun doing it. Get some lingerie. Talk about sex you've had before with other guys. Dress sexy when in public, flirt and tease other guys a lot. Tell him you need more sex. Have sex in different positions. Go to nude beach
These are al tips that helped my hubby accept that I wanted more sex and wanted to swing.
Sharon